Friday, March 15, 2024

Rebekah - Disney On Ice Idaho Falls, Idaho - March 14, 2024

We had a nice time visiting Rebekah in Idaho Falls when she where she performed on her Disney On Ice Mickey’s Search Party tour.















Tuesday, February 20, 2024

Review of the book by Olympic Figure Skater Gracie Gold

It took me less than a week to read Gracie Gold’s book.  She wrote in a candid, as if she was talking directly to me style, and told me the story of her life.

I have also written and published a book called MY SKATING LIFE which tells the story of my life, and there was so many similar stories although I am almost 40 years older than Gracie.  My book was published in 2014 which was at about the same time Gold won the US Ladies Figure Skating title for the first time and earned a spot on the Olympic team and earned a bronze medal in the Olympic team event, but so much happened to her after her 2014 Olympic experience.

Gracie Gold’s story is really very similar to most of the stories I’ve read about elite figure skaters, but unlike the stories that I’ve read in the past, Gracie shared every detail which included the good things, but also the bad things.  And…some of the bad things were very disturbing.

One reviewer says that Gold’s book may change our sport, but I’m not so sure.  Serious competitive figure skaters have always dealt with eating disorders, coaches who control, politics in judging, gossip in the background, depression, sadness, feelings of failure, and jealously.  Those things will never change.

I realized as I read her book that Gracie Gold loves skating and that love is still there.  I hope to meet her one day and I do hope that 40 years from now that Gracie Gold will still love figure skating as much as I do!

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****Spoiler Alert!  Don’t Read below if you Have Not Read Gracie Gold’s book yet!******

Some of the chapters and things said in Gracie Gold’s book were ones that made me really think about our sport:

The chapter about her special friendship with the late John Coughlin took me back to the times my kids trained at the same rink with him.  I am glad Gracie and John had such a friendship and I’m still so sad to think that John killed himself because of the SafeSport investigation about him.  How devastating it was for everyone who knew John, but wow…what an affect it had on Gracie.

Her eating disorder also “took me back.”  I talk about my battle with Anorexia Nervosa in my book.  Yes…figure skaters must be thin.  There seems to be a lifelong struggle with body image even when a person is “healed” from an eating disorder.

Her relationship with her coaches fascinated me since in competitive skating, coaches hold a special role and how they impact lives can affect the skater’s life for years and years.

When Frank Carroll threw Gracie’s skates in the trash must have been quite a scene!  I have known Frank Carroll since I was a little kid and him doing that must have really been a difficult moment.

The very idea that Gracie was raped by a fellow figure skater bothered me so much.

Gracie’s mother’s dedication to both of her daughters’ skating and lives I definitely related to.  I did the same thing for my three kids and my father did the same for his three kids and my three kids.

I remember being in hotel rooms after an important competition that didn’t go well crying and thinking my life as I knew it was over.  Gracie experience those feelings on a much bigger scale.  

It is nice to know how much Gracie enjoys teaching skating.  Her love of teaching adults is great.  I remember in my young coaching days how much I enjoyed teaching adults and very little children too.

I guess young people think it is okay to use bad language these days, but some of the “words” Gracie used as she told her story did bother me.

I was sad she “ghosted” her father as he tried to reconcile with her and was a bit envious of her wonderful and close relationship with her fraternal twin sister since my sister has not spoken to me for over two years even though I tried to reach out many times like Gracie’s father did.  

I’m so glad Gracie is in a good place now after so many lows that happened after the 2014 Winter Olympic Games.

I have many more thoughts.  I wonder what will happen in Gracie Gold’s life next?

Sunday, February 18, 2024

My Book May Not Be a Best Seller Like Gracie Gold’s Book, But….


My autobiography on my skating life is not a best seller like Olympic figure skater Gracie Gold’s recent book, but gives a picture of the inside of skating in a very positive way.  (I was determined, when I wrote the book, to not say negative things about our wonderful sport.  I am so sad that so much not so positive happened to Gracie though.). 

Skating did help make me who I am today and I hope that Gracie when she is my age will look back on the positive things that skating gave her.

If you want to read some wonderful things about figure skating, read my book…I have it priced as low as Amazon would allow and it is available on Kindle, paperback, or hardcover.

I have not sugar coated my story, so you will read about some of my struggles and how I pushed forward.

(Btw…I DID go to the Olympics in 2010…not as a skater, but as media…my book describes that wonderful experience!)

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The following was written by my friend Curtis Sochia, a fellow figure skater and hockey player and Disney On Ice performer.

These words are so true! :

“I would like to thank Figure Skating for forging the spirit I have today. 

Fall down. Get up. 

Fall down. Get up.

Fall down and get up and try again and again and again. No matter how much pain it caused, nor how tired I became....I...Must...Keep..Going. 

Never stop.

Never quit.

Always aim higher than I believe is possible. 

Thank you Figure Skating.”

All My Son Joel’s SnowSports Credentails!

My son’s updated Professional Ski Instructors of America membership card that shows all his credentials…I am so proud of him!


Saturday, February 3, 2024

Joel Farris - Five SnowSports Certifications and US Figure Skating Quintuple Gold Medalist

Another BIG accomplishment for my son Joel on Friday, February 2, 2024!  He passed the Alpine Freestyle One exam.  It was part of the PSIA National Freestyle Academy which took place at Woodward Park City, Utah.  




Last year, he took the same exam in Sun Valley, but did not pass.  

Just like in skating when a test is not passed, Joel did not want to give up.  I am so proud of his perseverance.  I believe he learned that from skating.  

Joel now holds the following snowsports certifications:

Alpine Level One





Children’s Specialist One



Snowboard Level One



Cross Country Level One




Alpine Freestyle Level One



And…he’s a US Figure Skating Quintuple Gold Medalist: 

Gold Skating Skills (Senior Moves)

Solo Gold Free Dance (Senior Solo Free Dance)

Gold Dance (gold pattern dance)

Gold Partnered Free Dance (Senior Free Dance)

Gold FreeSkate (Senior Free Skate)


We are SO PROUD of you Joel!





Tuesday, January 23, 2024

Review of my book “My Skating Life” by a deaf-blind figure skater!

I just stumbled on a review of my book written by a deaf-blind figure skater!  I didn’t know it was there….but, wow, did I enjoy reading what she had to say about my book!  Hope others have time to read this wonderful review.


Saturday, January 13, 2024

I’m so sad about Kelly Burge’s passing

A few days ago learned that Kelly Burge passed away on January 9, 2024.  

In the photo below, she is pictured with me and my sister Lynnellen when we were caddies at the Pacific Coast Championships.  I am on one end of this photo and my sister is on the other end and Kelly is next to her.  Kelly is holding up the “5” and I’m holding up the “1” and my sister Lynnellen is holding up the “6.”


The Burge family has always been close to my heart and are mentioned in my book My Skating Life.  Kelly’s sister Wendy placed 6th in the Olympics and was an Ice Capades star.  Wendy was the star of the Knott’s Berry Farm Christmas Ice show I performed in in 1985.  Their sister Roxann was also an accomplished figure skater and their parents were prominent US Figure Skating officials. I played with Wendy and Kelly.  Dr. Burge encouraged my dad to find The Three Schneiders the best skating coaches and he inspired my father to judge figure skating.  I am so sad.

Below is a video that not only features Wendy, but the Burge sisters.  The video talks about the struggles the Burge family faced after Kelly was his by a drunk driver.


Below are some family photo memories of Kelly:














Ruth, Harlan, and Kelly Burge